Be a Better Partner

I like making things easy, and the Lambs seem how to make staying connected easy in Be A Better Partner, a little book to help you make BIG improvements in your relationship, one FUN month at a time!  Each chapter offers a unique monthly theme with plenty of suggested activities to get you started and keep you focused all year long. What I really like about this theme is that you are reassessing monthly, which is...

Forty Beads

I have to admit, I haven’t tried the Forty Beads method yet, but it intrigues me enough to make it my pick of the month. At the beginning of relationships, sexual intimacy generally isn’t an issue, but as the relationship matures and the novelty starts to wane, often so does sexual intimacy. Very often the partner with the stronger sex drive becomes frustrated always trying to initiate when their...

The Five Love Languages

ContentsDoes He Come With Subtitles?Does He Come With Subtitles? One of the books that I most recommend is The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman. The reason I think so highly of this piece is because of the simplicity of the idea AND the effectiveness of it. Simple: there are five different ways (or languages) that we may express love to our partners. If we don’t speak the same language as our partner,...

Out of the Doghouse

I have been sending out the “CCTL Express Newsletter” for three years now, and I have yet to spotlight a book that I wrote, called “Out of the Doghouse: A Man’s Secret Survival Guide to Romance”. I guess it’s because it’s tough to be biased when the product I’m hocking is my own. But, the book is a great gift, if I do say so myself. Before I had written “Out of...

Love Her Right

I don’t often select a book on sexuality as my Guru Pick of the month, but Dr. Joni Frater and Esther Lastique’s new book (released last month), Love Her Right, has me breaking the rules. There are many books available on creating passion in the bedroom, but what makes Love Her Right so unique is that it’s written specifically for the married man, by two lesbians. Who better to tell us guys what...